Not long ago I read this really interesting true story of a woman, Karen, who had decided to quit her job, pack her backpack and travel to an exotic far-away place. Being away from home she conquered several of her intrinsic fears and learned to accept that unexplored land goes hand in hand with new unconquered fears. Does this not inspire you, make you wonder what happened during her trip or at least admire the lady for her enormous courage?
First of all, how many of us are bold enough to step out of our safe lives and exchange security for uncertainty? This lady, at thirty years old, feared that she would regret it for the rest of her life if she would not take action now; before it was too late. Even if I’d be horrified at the thought of doing something similar, I’d have to admit that having her nerves sounds appealing.
For example, I was amazed when I read that Karen got as far as walking over hot coals during a Chinese Buddhist ritual. Can you imagine yourself doing this? Although ten horses could not make me do something this risky, I admire her for her bravery.
When it comes to her fears, Karen was placed into situations and places where she had to deal with them. Wading in water, while being afraid of the ocean required some strength. Can I compare this to my personal fear to be bitten by a poisonous snake or spider? It seems easier to read about Karen’s fears and admire her way to handle them, than to confront my own fears.
How different we all are. Though I am not a party animal, I have no social fears, mainly positive curiosity towards people that have a different life style and culture than me. Karen however felt insecure in how she would socialize with the people she would meet out there. “Won’t I give offence, be misunderstood and doomed to be alone”, she wondered. Yet, she took off and faced her fears. The result was a wide circle of new friends and acquaintances she met while travelling. Good for her!
Karen realizes that fears will always be around and are part of life. Once again, I admire a person with that insightfulness.
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